The prison of your mind – Personal Development Assignment
Share your thoughts in the most honest and sincere way to obtain the full 100 extra credit points available with this opportunity. (the grand total of extra credit points collectively dictate up to an additional 10% added to your final grade)
The prison of your mind |
so I’m trying to compose my my blog post
for tonight and I’m thinking it sounds
really believable that I went to prison
and hugged a bunch of really nice
prisoners while a DJ dizzy threw on some
records and Richard Branson told me
where I can score some free heroin
true story
lesson number one never believe a
prediction that doesn’t empower you when
I was born the doctors told my parents
that I would be dead within the first 24
hours of my life 35 years later all
those doctors are dead
and I am the only doctor that remains
never believed a prediction that doesn’t
empower you
how many predictions have been thrown at
you your whole life if you believe
predictions that do not empower you
you will wither away and die either
physically die or your spirit
will die as you just walk around the
world like a carcass that is just
following the masses you will be given a
lot of titles in your life you will be
told so many different things you must
only listen to that which empowers you I
have a belief that have served me in my
life and that is that everyone is
rooting for me to win even those that do
not know it and I am NOT here today to
tell you that I’ve had adversity in my
life and so therefore I know what you’re
going through I don’t have a clue what
any of you are going through in your
lives I did not grow up in your
neighborhoods more than likely I did not
have your set of parents nor do I live
in your body I have not had the events
that you’ve had happened to you
I can tell you I am only an expert on
one thing and that’s how to be me and I
do it well
but it’s not come easily I’ve gone
through things that I don’t wish upon
anyone in this room I’ve had metal rods
pulled out of bone marrow while I was
awake I’ve had drawn sections where
teeth ready extracted and I can no
longer chew my own food I have to get up
every day and be showered and cared for
physically by another human being
fortunately she’s a gorgeous woman that
I married I get stared at everywhere I
go and the moment people meet me if they
don’t know a thing about my resume they
automatically just by the human nature
think to themselves oh it must be so
difficult to be that man if somebody
pities me they’re wasting their time
because I have chosen a life of strength
and I am here to help you choose a life
of strength but I’m gonna tell you we’ve
talked about drugs here you only want
the worst drug to ever hit the human
races pity the moment you feel sorry for
another person or the moment you feel
sorry for yourself your host you are
totally completely frozen in potential
we can not pity ourselves we cannot pity
you yes I get to go home today yes I get
to have what many would call freedom but
I’m gonna talk to you about freedom
about what I really choose to see
freedom as because like I said you
cannot believe predictions that do not
empower you the second lesson today is
you are not your condition you are not I
am NOT disabled sure I’ll take the
handicap parking privileges
but that does not define me as a man not
able I’ve been looked at and treated my
whole life as if I am NOT able I have
had to rise above and show people that
the only disability is ones refusal to
adapt you have to adapt to whatever
environment you’re in even if it’s
prison and what does adaption look like
I think it looks like celebration
because when you meet people that are
celebrating their life you want to be
around them you want to learn from you
want to do business with them you want
to hire them look if you do not want to
be seen as a prisoner or a convict when
you get out of this or even while you’re
in this that is an attitude is a belief
in yourself that you bring value to the
human race no matter what your current
condition title or stature is because if
I believe that I’m disabled I would
wither up I would be shy I would be
insecure I would be afraid I would act
like I need your help and the rest of
humanity would be okay with that
but I choose something else I choose to
be strong I choose to be a leader I
choose to have words to move this planet
I’ll tell you why I was born and I hope
it inspires you to find out why you were
born I was born to rid this world of
insecurity because when a human being is
insecure
they do stupid stuff when we feel like
we’re not enough we chase external
validation and external objects to try
to tell us we’re enough thank you
you are enough I’ll tell you
I need a pledges of therapists to love
all human beings no matter what they’ve
done because deep down inside I found
that every human being just wants to be
loved even if they’re tough even if
they’re scary even if they’re vicious
you get them in the right position at
the right time they’ll tell you the
truth they just want to be loved you
know who they want the love from the
most not their moms not their dads not
there wardens none of these people they
want to be able to look in the mirror
and love themselves and if you can
figure that out then you’re going
somewhere
you cannot feel sorry for yourself when
you feel sorry for self you will wither
but there’s a contradiction the feeling
sighs yourself it’s the opposite extreme
it’s it’s I would I call bullying
yourself beating yourself up being your
own enemy and telling yourself that all
those predictions those negative
opinions they’re true they’re right
you’re washed-up failure
you’re not going to amount to anything
bullying yourself is the most dangerous
thing that you could do you cannot
afford to pity yourself you cannot
afford to bully yourself you have to
love yourself because the last lesson
that I’m gonna share with you today that
is I’m gonna teach you what the real
prison is it’s not surrounded by barbed
wire Electrical fences the real prisons
do not have guards the real prison is up
here and we all got it we all have a
mind the chatters so often won’t stop
chattering do you know where your your
salvation is it’s not outside these
walls I’ve met so many people that are
so extremely successful in famous that
are in prison they’re stuck in their
minds bowing themselves pitying
themselves true freedom is dropping down
out of that mind and what my wife has
taught me just drop into your hearts in
the mastering this beating thing that
it’s more than just sending blood to the
extremities what is it doing it’s
sending emotional possibilities infinite
possibilities of choice in our behavior
in our life and our attitude
when you love yourself whether you’re
sleeping on a prison guards we’re in a
mansion whether you have food in your
belly or you don’t know when your next
meal is coming when you love yourself
when you learn to master your emotions
then and only then are you free I love
you each and every one of you and I wish
you freedom within these walls that’s
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